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15 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Wednesday 12/13/06 - 3:09:17 PM EST (GMT-5)
No, I think you can feel guilt when everyone knows.
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15 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Wednesday 12/13/06 - 3:20:53 PM EST (GMT-5)
On 12/13/2006 3:09:17 PM Proserpine wrote:
you can feel guilt when everyone knows. |
Very true. Or you can feel no guilt even though no one knows. |
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15 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Wednesday 12/13/06 - 3:39:50 PM EST (GMT-5)
On 12/13/2006 3:20:53 PM HaroldtheBat wrote:
On 12/13/2006 3:09:17 PM Proserpine wrote: you can feel guilt when everyone knows. Very true. Or you can feel no guilt even though no one knows. |
*nods* |
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15 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Wednesday 12/13/06 - 3:47:14 PM EST (GMT-5)
Yeah you can feel guilt whether or not anyone knows or everyone does, same goes for shame.
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15 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Thursday 12/14/06 - 12:31:02 AM EST (GMT-5)
No. I mean, personally, I don't feel guilt if someone finds out about something I've done...nor do I feel guilty keeping it bottled up.
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15 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Thursday 12/14/06 - 3:02:36 PM EST (GMT-5)
Personally, i'd feel more guilty if only i knew what i'd done.
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15 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Thursday 12/14/06 - 4:38:31 PM EST (GMT-5)
Depends what you've done I suppose :P
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15 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Thursday 12/14/06 - 4:51:31 PM EST (GMT-5)
Yes, I agree with that statement.
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15 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Friday 12/15/06 - 10:43:02 AM EST (GMT-5)
Yes, I find that to be true.
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15 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Saturday 12/16/06 - 12:28:23 PM EST (GMT-5)
So very true!
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15 yrs ago, 7 mos ago - Saturday 12/16/06 - 12:29:12 PM EST (GMT-5)
Yeah, I agree.
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15 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Friday 3/16/07 - 11:28:59 PM EST (GMT-5)
No. I've had times where I did something dumb involving others and others pointed out my folly and I felt guilty only after that.
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15 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Friday 3/16/07 - 11:29:42 PM EST (GMT-5)
Yes, I do but I think the guilt stays with you even if everybody around you knows.
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15 yrs ago, 4 mos ago - Saturday 3/17/07 - 12:14:13 AM EST (GMT-5)
The point is that technically, the feeling of shame is the feeling of having transgressed a public norm, and therefore exposing yourself to critcism/condemnation. The feeling of guilt is the feeling of knowing you have transgressed a personal value. Or something like that. It doesnt agree completely with ordinary usage of the words.
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15 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Monday 4/16/07 - 1:42:10 PM EST (GMT-5)
Nah, I get different feelings but I'm not sure which is which.
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15 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Monday 4/16/07 - 4:36:11 PM EST (GMT-5)
Pretty accurate.
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15 yrs ago, 3 mos ago - Monday 4/23/07 - 9:40:09 PM EST (GMT-5)
Am I the only one who doesn't experience guilt? I just stopped feeling guity whenever I did anything "wrong" or "bad".
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14 yrs ago, 10 mos ago - Thursday 9/27/07 - 8:44:56 PM EST (GMT-5)
I agree. However, I still feel guilty for my deeds when others find out.
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14 yrs ago, 8 mos ago - Sunday 11/25/07 - 2:45:19 PM EST (GMT-5)
I've felt ashamed of myself doing things that no one else knows about.
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